How to dress like a gentleman and attract girls

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What do girls want in a man?

Every man has this question in mind and to be honest; no one has been able to figure out a sure-shot answer to this question. How to tell if a girl likes you may not be easy. It is because girls are complex creatures and every girl is attracted to different things. However, all girls are attracted by one common factor – a well-dressed gentleman.

What is the first thing that pops into your mind when you think of a gentleman? A man sharply dressed in a three-piece suit. It is the image of a gentleman that we all easily relate to. So, the journey to enticing girls begins with dressing up well. If you need help in this regard, we’ve got you covered! Here are some tips to get you started:

  1. Wear what fits you

The first and the most important rule to dressing like a gentleman is to select clothes that fit. This means that you need to know your exact measurements, especially when purchasing a suit. How do you know if a suit fits you well?

  • The jacket’s shoulders neither bulk up at the corner nor fall down – they lay just right
  • The sleeves aren’t too tight when you lift your arms
  • The jacket’s length is neither too small nor too long
  • The pants are not so long that they sweep the floor nor too short that they show off ankles

To make sure that the suit fits perfectly, try it on. Relax your arms by the side and then hold the hem of the jacket with your fingers. It should rest in the crevices of your fingers. If the coat is too long, it will bunch up. If it’s too short, it won’t reach the crevice. The right length and fitting will speak for itself.

  1. Getting the hang of the jacket buttons

Now that you’ve got a well-fitted suit, the next step is to carry it the right way. An essential aspect in that regard is knowing which jacket buttons should be done and which ones should be left undone.

Doing the wrong buttons can ruin the look of the suit. So, let us break down the jacket button strategy for you to help you look like a gentleman:

  • For jackets with three buttons, the top and the middle ones should be buttoned up. The bottom one should always be left undone.
  • For jackets with two buttons, only the top one should be done.

Unbutton your jacket when you sit down.

  1. Mind the length of the trousers

As mentioned above, ankle-swinging and floor-sweeping pants do not give off a refined look. Not sure what should be the ideal length of your pants? It’s simple. Your pants should cover half the shoe from the back. Anything longer or shorter than that won’t look stylish or classy.

  1. Don’t let the suit wear you

Filling the pockets of the suit with way too many heavy items will create creases on the fabric, distort its shape, and make it look worn out. The solution is to arrange all your valuables in a way that they don’t ruin the look of your suit.

How can you do that? Make your wallet as thin as possible by taking out all the unnecessary items, and then place it in your breast pocket. In the other breast pocket, keep your phone. Your car and home keys should go in the inside pockets.

  1. Add a tie to the suit

Even though you can’t go bold with your suit’s colors, you can experiment with your tie.

Ties can be colorful.

Ties can be patterned.

Ties can be unique.

They can represent your mood and feel on a particular day.

However, you need to take care of two things when selecting a tie – the quality and how you’re going to handle it. Before purchasing a necktie, feel its material with your hands to get an idea of its fabric and lining. This will give you a fair idea of how it will knot.

Here are some other things you need to remember when wearing a tie:

  • Your tie’s tip should be in the center of your belt
  • The tie should be tightly pulled to avoid any gap between the collar opening and tie itself
  • Four-in-hand knot is the easiest one to tie and suits majority of collar shapes. You can add a little oomph in your tie knot by adding a small dimple in it.
  1. Don’t ignore socks and shoes

Do you know one of the first things girls notice about guys is their shoes? The simplest answer to the question ‘how to tell if a girl likes you’ is if they notice your shoes. So the nicer shoes you wear, the more are your chances of getting noticed.

Leather shoes and brogues are the ones that go best with suits. Make sure that they are shiny and polished adequately so that they complement the outfit. Don’t wear the same footwear two days in a row. This way they will last longer and retain their shape.

When selecting the socks, match their color with that of the trousers instead of the shoes. The length of the stockings should be long enough to hide the leg.

  1. Prioritize quality

When purchasing new clothes or shoes, make quality a priority.  Good quality attire looks better and lasts longer. Think of them as an investment that will improve your wardrobe and increase your charm. Even if you have to spend little extra money to get high-quality clothes, genuine leather jackets and shoes, don’t hesitate to do so. It will be worth the money in the long run!

Now that you know the top tips to pull off a gentlemanly attire, it’s time for you to put that knowledge to good use and charm girls.