Ask Pinstripe Why isn’t she chasing me back?
Ask Pinstripe: Why isn’t she chasing me back?
Tom from Hartford CT writes Ask Pinstripe:
Dear Ask Pinstripe, I recently met a girl I am interested in and I took her out. She seemed to like me and we had a good time, but now she is trailing off, why isn’t she chasing me back?
Usually when a woman is not chasing you back it could be because of 3 very distinct reasons.
She’s simply too proud to chase you.
Some women believe that it should always be the man that chases them. It makes perfect sense because you are the man who should be working to get whatever he wants.
You didn’t give her enough reasons to chase you.
You can’t expect to go on one date and to have her chase you afterwards. It all bows down to how you make her feel. If you’ve showed her the time of her life then yes, she will definitely chase you. If you’ve had a date and are still wondering if she’s going to pick up the phone when you call, then surely you did not give her enough reasons to chase you.
You need to give her time to chase you.
The most common mistake guys make when waiting for girls to “chase” them is to actually assume she won’t after 1-2 days. Apart from giving her enough reasons to chase you, you need to give her time to do that as well.
But in my opinion, just like with everything else in life, why wait for it to come to you, when you can easily get it yourself?
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